问：如果一个男生所喜欢的女生告诉他，她已经有喜欢的人，会不会让那个男生受伤害？
When a lady reject the man who likes her, by telling him that she already have someone in mind, will he feel hurt?
答：如果那个男生真的喜欢这个女生，他对她是真诚的，那他会很伤心。如果他是成熟的，他不会感到受伤害。被拒绝当然会很伤心，但是成熟的人知道她并没有伤害他。
If his love for her is sincere, he will feel hurt; if he is mature, he won't feel he is hurt. Certainly he will be sad of the rejection, but his maturity will guard him from self-pity of "she hurt me".
